In many cultures around the world, important life transitions were marked with rites of passage — moments when community gathered to acknowledge that something meaningful was changing. These ceremonies offered a way to pause, reflect, and step into the next stage of life with support and recognition.
Today, many of these traditions have faded from everyday life. Yet the need for connection, community, and meaningful ways to honour our transitions remains.
Youth Fire Quest
The Youth Fire Quest, guided by Matt McKinney with support from Cari Burdett, is a coming-of-age experience for youth ages 12 and up. At its heart is an overnight solo fire vigil, where each teen tends their own fire through the night while being held by mentors, family, and community nearby.
Adult Fire Quest — April 10–11 | Glenora, Quw’utsun Valley
For adults, the Adult Fire Quest offers a similar opportunity to step out of daily life and into a more intentional rhythm. With time on the land, space for reflection, and the support of community, it becomes a way to cross a threshold with awareness rather than alone.
Fire Within: A Journey for Women (May–September 2026)
Co-led by Stephanie MacKay and Cari Burdett, The Fire Within is a five-month journey for women moving through (peri)menopause into cronehood. The program culminates in an overnight camping experience on Vancouver Island.
Also at Lila Music Centre This April
- Lila Song Circle — 8-week Spring Session, Thursdays 6:30–8pm (April 2–May 28). No experience necessary.
- David Hykes “Harmonic Presence” — April 20: Workshop 2:30–5:30pm, Concert 6:30–8:30pm.
Lila Music Centre, 3228A Gibbins Rd, Duncan. 250-710-4174 | cariburdett.com
This article originally appeared in the Cowichan Valley Voice Magazine, April 2026 Issue 209.